“Nowadays, there is nothing called true love. What all today exists is only conditional love. That love is for a particular reason, a particular trait of a person and a particular greed which needs to be fulfilled by human beings. That isn’t called love; in fact it’s called “Lust”. Many of you mistake lust as a crave for sex or a sexual satisfaction but that’s not the truth. Lust are of many kinds. Many people love each other because they need sex whereas there are some people who love each other for the lust of their physical traits, some people love each other for the lust of their money and some love each other only to showoff because they think that it makes them look pretty cool in the modern world. So this proves there is nothing called true love.
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Boys look for pretty girls to make them their love, baby, jaanu, bachha and all. Girls look for handsome and rich boys to make them their life partner, babu, sona, meri jaan,meri duniya(my world).
I don’t know how many duniya(worlds) they want to have coz such type of girls havehad near about 5–6 such “my world” in the past few months and they can soon create their own solar system by combining their “my worlds”. So where is the true love?
If true love would have existed, then there wouldn’t have been divorces between husband and wives.
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Have you ever asked yourself why you love your parents? Isn’t it because they have done so much for you and still doing it without even demanding from you anything. What if they start demanding something from you everytime they do something for you?
Most of your so called true love for your parents will instantly vanish. Many of you will then start arguing with them over the matter. I know a majority of people will not accept this but it’s the harsh truth. Then where is the true love guys?
If true love would have existed and everybody would have truly loved their parents, then there wouldn’t have been old age homes.
So, there is no such thing called true love. But, there is something called pure love. Love which is not based on caste, color, looks, wealth or fame or any kind of give and take is pure love. Pure love is something which can not be defined in words; it is a feeling which almost all of us had gone through at least once in their lifetime but most of us have failed to recognize it.”
“Love is the glue that makes separate entities one. Maya, the creative aspect of Brahman, is the creator of diversity and individuality. This is the nature of everything that is created. Maya’s ability to create differences is unimaginable unless you deeply contemplate it. Those who believe what they see objectively will forever be hunting for the common principle. It will make us run helter skelter to look for happiness…. Such is the magic of Maya. Such is the bane of Maya.
Look at 7 billion people on the planet. Every retina is unique and so is every fingerprint. Every leaf in a tree is different. Every planet is different. Every sun is different; every Galaxy is different. There is nothing in the universe like our earth, though there may be other kinds of Earths. The diversity – what purpose does it serve? Is its main purpose to hide what is behind? The more the diversity the more the senses go out trying to find answers.
The question is … Are all these things really separate entities each doing their own thing? Each fighting to live? The underlying reality is that each so-called separate entity has a role and all are somehow linked together; the human, the tree, the mountains, rivers, oceans, the animals, birds, rats and snakes. Like the dark matter in the universe, which hold galaxies together, something seems to hold everything together with a common goal. That glue is LOVE; the karma is GIVING. Without love, the relationship cannot be established in this diversity of Maya. Without love, everything seems so entirely separate that linking all of them is impossible. With this glue of love, we begin to realise that each is unique but has a role in the universe. Interdependency is a hint given by Maya to understand and love the other and their relationship to us and seeing them as a part of us. The glue called love makes this possible without judgement of the other. It is an orchestra at the sub-atomic and cosmic planes. Nothing is independent of another. This love is expressed through giving. A man’s life is well lived when he gives much more than what he has received. So love translates into ‘giving’, making the universe exist.. For such a being the diversity of Maya disappears, the differences all merge into one, which reveals the other face of Maya which is Brahman. Such a being we call enlightened or jeevan mukhta… The one who is free from the dependency on maya. The one who has broken through the veil of temporary to permanent. For such a person, heaven is here and love is his nature and giving is the most natural act of gratefulness.
“The deepest love we can feel is generated for a being who reflects to us our deepest, truest, self. This being could be a family member, partner, friend, mentor, guru, or anyone else. This person is on a level of their own in your hierarchy of love – a level that you can hardly speak about but just the thought of them puts you in the place of love in yourself that is pure and true. This transcendent love cuts right through your ego and feeds your heart and soul.”
“Love exists for so many reasons. It exists so we can find a mate. It exists so we can have and raise offspring. It exists so we can be accepted in society and connect with nature and the earth. It exists so we can touch into our true nature. It exists so we can connect deeply with other humans. It exists so we can feel the deepest joy imaginable. Love exists for all these reasons, and is unquestionably a core part of being human. Love is what makes life worth living.”
“Love doesn’t merely exist – it is the undercurrent of existence itself. Love, allurement, gravity, desire – these are all words for this basic push and pull of the Universe. Love is the life-force of all beings – from rocks to plants to ants to us. The complexity of matter is determined by the amount of love it accesses – i.e. what separates humans from rocks. We humans love not just for reproduction or for acceptance, but because it is the most natural thing to do; love is our nature.”
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