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Is there such a thing as unconditional love?

“That’s a good question and it’s hard to say, especially from me, who hasn’t really experienced any severe emotional trauma. For example, I would say that I unconditionally love my mother, or sibling, best friend or partner(s). But I wonder if any type of negative, abusive relationship would affect this ideal of ‘unconditionality.’ However, maybe this is being too specific. In the broader sense, I think that ‘unconditional love’ can exist when talking about, say, humanity. Or life itself. Or existence. I unconditionally love the human experience. Isn’t that tantra? Or, I unconditionally love the act of being alive. Isn’t this being present?”

What is the deepest love imaginable?

“I think that the word ‘love’ gets mis-defined a lot in our world today. A lot of people equate love with romance, happiness, having their needs be met by someone. But I think love is deeply generosity. Unconditional selflessness. It’s not ‘how can this person make me feel satisfied,’ but “what can I do to make this person/thing/idea happy/full/flourish?”