“Taboo around sex adds a level of excitement.  It makes sex mysterious and intense.  It becomes extra personal and intimate, and adds an element of forbidden fruit.  To taboo sex is to open the door to our own darkness and allow it to flow out through sex.  This is why there is so much anger, hate, lust, submissiveness, dominance, and other traits alive in sex that most of us don’t show to the light in any other circumstance.”