“Love can be unconditional, but its important to note that there is nothing truly wrong with conditional love. We all have preferences, that is natural, its a wonderful gift to get to love the people, places, and things that we conditionally love most. Of course, no person, place, or thing is perfect in a conditional sense so the greater the level of unconditional love, the more peace and joy it will bring us. Unconditional love is possible in that we can love someone or something just as it is, without needing it to change in anyway. But, that doesn’t mean we need to adhere to the demands of that someone or something in a self-sacrificing way. It just means we don’t need them to do or not do anything for us to love them. Unconditional and conditional love go together, there is no need to strive for perfect unconditional love for all, especially at the expense of our well-being. Love that is best in my eyes, is love that is nonjudgmental, free, and willing.”